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Economic Recession Can Burden Family Relationships:
Tips for Coping with Financial Stress
San Diego, June 23, 2008 – Studies
on relationships consistently rank financial stress as a primary contributor
to family conflict. Rising symptoms of economic recession such as unemployment,
foreclosures, bankruptcies, increasing gas prices and inflation can
create strain on family relationships .
“Issues related to intimacy, finances, child-raising, and communication
are the four major concerns of couples that I counsel,” says Michael
Riskin, Marriage and Family Therapist. “When families deal with
a financial crisis effectively, it can actually be a springboard toward
stronger relationships in all those areas of potential conflict.”
The California Association of Marriage and Family Therapists offers
the following tips for coping with financial stress as a family:
• Don’t allow financial discussions
to dominate the marriage relationship. Strengthen your marital friendship
outside of financial
problems. When financial discussions need to take place, set yourself
up for success by making sure you have time to talk about it. If the
conversation becomes too emotionally heated, take a break and continue
the conversation later.
• Help your
kids understand what is going on. Children are often affected by the
stress of their parents, expressed
by tone of voice,
late hours and lack of attention. Help your kids understand what
is contributing to the changes in your attitude and schedule, and
use it as an opportunity
to teach them healthy ways to deal with stress.
• Make family time a priority. The temptation
to spend all of your time and energy at work often accompanies financial
stress.
Instead of helping the situation, this may actually lower your productivity
and put a strain on family relationships. Plan family time that will serve
to relieve stress. Connection to the family can provide social
support that you cannot get anywhere else.
• Make the best of the situation. See financial
difficulties as temporary and include the family in coming up with
creative ways
to approach the situation. While extremely frustrating, time off work due
to unemployment
may be additional time to spend with the family. The higher price
of gas may be an opportunity to encourage the family to walk or ride bikes
for local errands.
Financial pressures
often test the stability of a relationship. It takes dedication
and commitment to ensure that misunderstandings
and disagreements
do not come between you and those you love. A Marriage and Family Therapist
can help your family develop communication strategies and approaches
to conflict that will result in stronger relationships. To learn more
about family therapy, or to locate a therapist in your area, visit California’s
online mental health resource, www.therapistfinder.com.
About CAMFT
The California Association of Marriage and Family
Therapists, with 27 chapters throughout the state, is an independent
professional organization, representing the interests
of licensed marriageand family therapists. CAMFT provides TherapistFinder.com
as a resource to the public looking for marriage and family therapists located
in California. For
more information about CAMFT, please call (858) 292-2638 or visit www.camft.org.
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